Comparing Yourself to Others

I think one of the biggest traps in reality creation is comparison.

We look at someone else's life and decide that our life isn't changing fast enough.

We compare their success, their gifts, their manifestations, their followers, their relationships, and then quietly ask ourselves,

"What's wrong with me?"

But maybe nothing is wrong with you.

Maybe you're not here to create their reality.

Maybe you're here to discover your own.

I used to think manifestation was about getting more.

Now I see it differently.

The greatest shift in my life wasn't becoming someone impressive.

It was becoming peaceful.

It was healing the parts of me that felt unworthy.

It was learning to stop abandoning myself.

It was waking up and being grateful for an ordinary day.

So don't compare your journey to someone else's highlight reel.

You don't know what lesson they're learning, and they don't know what lesson you're learning.

Reality creation isn't a competition.

It's a relationship with yourself.

And the moment you stop trying to become someone else's version of success, you create space to become your own.

That's when life begins to feel less like a race and more like a return.

A return to yourself.

Manifest Fast? How?

Once you are awaken you would assume that you can get what you want easily right? Yes I did too 😁 Months later instead I get excited about it, desperation hit hard. Areas of my interest turn sideways, left and right ideas become useless, it's like hope is gone. Talking about frequency, yes it could happen but you don't have to stay that way. 

My solution to it is, I was contemplating and I've realized, I have self love problem and being safe. Love is the highest frequency of all. You are an essence of Love and this quality in your being must returned or remembered. My ego or I say my programming did have a hard time riding the system. Rapid thoughts from meaning to meaning become an endless cycle. When I saw through silence, observing, listening to my thoughts I saw the pattern I was looping.

 I love to create stories after story, reason here and there. I then stop listening. Not ignoring but not believing any of it. I begun to know which is coming from my soul or just thoughts that appear elsewhere. This is part of a self inquiry that some are doing now and boy yes that clears space in the mind. 

My thoughts are like clouds appearing and disappearing. If you are not still enough to notice, you might have agreed an idea you never thought you did. 

So it's a practice. To train yourself to get stable and distinguish your own voice. 

Once you get stable, manifestation is no longer like an obligation or like a task since you are now commanding the field what you want. 

Knowing what thoughts and feelings are, it become like second nature and it's like you dont manifest or aware of manifesting since you are directing the field now. You are the controller of your reality. Not any coincidental Manifesting based on belief. 

I tested it this year even I have doubts. If in the moment I know who is aware 'the I am presence' is there, its instant. The result is within the day. 

One example I had was I left my documents together with my bank book at Hongkong airport. it's a big airport and it's less of a chance someone has the time to take time and deliver it to the loss and found. It's very unusual. I manifested it. I declared I had my stuff and that nothing is lost and nothing is missing. So it did happen. My husband got a voicemail stating someone found it and the airline arrange the documents near enough when we transit within the airport and after a week we had it.

I only had fall short if I declare something I'm not too sure of or if I don't really want it. Other than that, if I'm certain and I have a desire, its instant. 

If you want to ask me to clarify something in your journey and are feeling drawn to my frequency, DO IT PLEASE. You can find me and watch my videos on the redapp - Rochetalks. I will be happy to make a video for you and explain which part of your journey you want to get clarity on. This is my service to the community. 

LIFE is UNFAIR is that Really True

 Why people get stuck? They are not Present. They keep on thinking on other people rather seeing in their own lens physically what life is showing up. Instead what they do, they love to watch people about their lives. Comparing and bitching to themselves and then running a story that life is unfair. So you're accepting it.. It's nobody's fault but you. Accept what is but it doesn't mean admitting it will not change. All that is playing in your life is coming from your belief. You love to run a story that it's unfair. Nobody loves me or cares about you. 

The Universe is not giving you challenge because you unconsciously agree to it. It only runs by your dominant thoughts. It reflects who you are. It's not a punishment or you are being judged. It's the thought running in your mind you believe it true. And honestly, you never realized it. You all claim it as bad or not favorable. THe Universe is very mechanical. If you say so then it will run that way. That's how the system works. 

What you believe is true will show. As Within So without. You want to change Reality? Change within. That's very simple. Be honest with yourself. And also, a kicker here. Majority doesn't know what they want 😂 I'm just a mirror. You are a mirror to me too but the difference between you and me. I see you as potential I can accept or not. And I moved on without a story.

What Reality is For Me

 Reality is not something happening to us.

Reality is something we participate in.

For most of my life, I thought reality was fixed. That circumstances, people, and events existed separately from me. But through experience, I began noticing something deeper.

When I changed within, reality changed around me.

Not because the world magically transformed overnight, but because my relationship with life transformed.

The more I healed, the more I noticed.

The more present I became, the more life seemed to respond.

The more I trusted, the more opportunities, synchronicities, and unexpected blessings appeared.

Reality began feeling less like a random series of events and more like a living mirror.

A mirror reflecting my beliefs, my energy, my level of awareness, and my willingness to trust life.

I no longer see reality as something to control.

I see it as something to dance with.

Some lessons arrive through joy. Some arrive through challenge. Both are teachers.

The greatest shift happened when I stopped chasing grand outcomes and started appreciating the present moment.

Peace at home became valuable. Authentic connections became valuable. Simple moments became valuable.

And strangely, the more I appreciated what already existed, the more life seemed to expand naturally.

Reality is not just what I see with my eyes.

It is also what I perceive through awareness.

Two people can experience the same situation and walk away with completely different realities because reality is filtered through consciousness.

The deeper I went into self-discovery, the more I realized that separation was an illusion.

Not because we are all the same, but because everything is connected in ways the mind cannot fully explain.

Life is constantly communicating.

Through experiences. Through people. Through intuition. Through challenges. Through unexpected surprises.

Reality became less about figuring everything out and more about participating consciously.

Trusting. Observing. Learning. Growing.

And perhaps the deepest truth I have discovered is this:

Reality changes when you change.

Not because you escape life.

But because you finally begin seeing it clearly.