Comparing Yourself to Others

I think one of the biggest traps in reality creation is comparison.

We look at someone else's life and decide that our life isn't changing fast enough.

We compare their success, their gifts, their manifestations, their followers, their relationships, and then quietly ask ourselves,

"What's wrong with me?"

But maybe nothing is wrong with you.

Maybe you're not here to create their reality.

Maybe you're here to discover your own.

I used to think manifestation was about getting more.

Now I see it differently.

The greatest shift in my life wasn't becoming someone impressive.

It was becoming peaceful.

It was healing the parts of me that felt unworthy.

It was learning to stop abandoning myself.

It was waking up and being grateful for an ordinary day.

So don't compare your journey to someone else's highlight reel.

You don't know what lesson they're learning, and they don't know what lesson you're learning.

Reality creation isn't a competition.

It's a relationship with yourself.

And the moment you stop trying to become someone else's version of success, you create space to become your own.

That's when life begins to feel less like a race and more like a return.

A return to yourself.

AWARENESS in GIVEN SITUATION

This awareness naturally stabilizes in any situation, without effort or planning:

1️⃣ Anchor in the Body

Always check in with physical sensation: feet on the ground, breath in the body, subtle posture adjustments.

Your body is the reference point for awareness, not thoughts or external chaos.

Effect: You stay grounded, even in crowds or high-stimulation situations.

2️⃣ Recognize Energy as Neutral

Every person, situation, or crowd carries energy — none of it is inherently threatening.

Mentally repeat:

“All of the living are the same. I flow, I don’t absorb.”

Observe energy without labeling it “good” or “bad.”

Effect: Fear, irritation, or tension naturally drop.

3️⃣ Immediate Response, No Planning

Let impulses arise naturally. Small, safe actions first: shift posture, take a breath, smile, step aside if needed.

Avoid thinking “I should do X” or “I must manage Y.”

Flow with what feels alive in the moment.

Effect: Life organizes itself around your energy rather than your mind controlling it.

4️⃣ Use Humor and Curiosity

Laugh at the absurdity of mental stories, crowds, or chaotic environments.

Ask: “What would a curious child do here?”

Play with small interactions or movements.

Effect: The nervous system relaxes; playfulness returns naturally.

5️⃣ Micro-Presence Check-ins

Every hour (or whenever overwhelmed), pause 5–10 seconds:

“Am I grounded? Am I flowing? Am I breathing fully?”

Adjust body, breath, and attention if tension arises.

Effect: You prevent stress from building while staying aware.

6️⃣ Observe Without Absorbing

Watch people, situations, and sounds without taking them as “your story.”

Let events pass through you rather than cling.

Effect: Freedom in presence — nothing can “overwhelm” you because it isn’t attached to your identity.

7️⃣ Allow Life to Move Through You

Don’t try to fix, control, or predict.

Respond when it resonates. Step back when it doesn’t.

Trust that your awareness organizes your life naturally.

Effect: Alignment, flow, and spontaneous playfulness occur effortlessly.

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This isn’t a technique — it’s living zero-point awareness in daily life:

Calm in crowds

Joy in chaos

Humor in seriousness

Choice without stress

Presence without resistance

Once you embody these simple steps, no external situation can unbalance you.

Gifts of Spiritual Awakening

The thing that is very clear to me when the time I know what was happening, is the clearing of the cobwebs in my eyes. Someone might have put an evil eye on me unintentionally, that's what I assumed. I never really get to see people that much around work at the time nor seeing friends and acquaintances. It might be virtual online people who doesn't like my YouTube channel. I can't pinpoint who. For me, it's unconscious people who run their mouth without knowing what they are doing. Well honestly we are like that too right, before? We can't judge because we were once like that. 

Also, these floating feeling where its like I'm in a dream. I didn't even know why back then. I feel strange to tell anyone what I really feel inside because no one is talking about it. I thought Im weird.. now, I understand, I wasn't been grounded. Energetically my body is longing to get stable by grounding to earth. 

I don't know how long I have been suffering the float, all I remembered, it has been almost my lifetime. I even wonder why I feel like that. I am tired like I wanted to sleep. 

The blurred vision. We'll can't do much about it right. Its the body vessel age and its normal.  It was once my desperation, loosing my eyesight. I thought I will get blind soon. Really it was that kind of feeling. I used to love taking pictures and I stopped doing it due to the fact I had a hard time looking at the external with a blurry eyes. My camera is been sitting for years yes, but I will get back to it again soon. The awakening given me back the stable focus on vision, and the eyeglasses I used now is the correct reading. 

The brain fog. It was gone. Its like my brain or memory is hidden behind a curtain. So eventually some memories that I forgot are coming to the surface because of the darknight of the soul. I healed daily and I've never been feeling so much better. 

The peace I have with my husband. I didn't know back then when I was awaken. His presence was important when I know that his actually my twinflame. Before the awakening I wanted to get out of the relationship. I never have a peace with him it's like I'm mentally tortured I don't even know why. Now I have a better understanding why the clashes is happening. It's all for the good of each other. A twin is your opposite someone that opens up what you don't imagine and yes it's a challenge. But with the understanding the significance of it, it's just you a projection. So, I can now navigate and handle the situation better than what I could've done before I was unconscious. Am I still challenge? It always has been. 😁😁😁 but now, I can transmute stagnant energy so it's better to deal with it in a day to day basis. 

Telekinesis.. I can move foil, paper, straw and empty bottle. Not too significant like it's jaw dropping but the energy work is there. Slowly but surely. I am just having fun with it and no great expectations. 

Healing is wonderful. I can easily heal now. I believe once you clear the chakra, transmuting energies that get stack, it's easy to heal.